Moving Inward
Something I’m thinking about today…
In the decades of my youth, I believed that friends and intimates walked as one—that we were on the same page and understood one another so well in, what I believed to be, our shared mutual journey. Through time and experience, I’ve learned that our lives are separate and unique, and we are lucky to share time together on the road, walking side by side for a day, a year, or if one is really lucky, a lifetime. As much as I’d like to have loved ones in my life always, folks that I thought would be with me forever have come and gone, and I’m sure they may feel the same way about me. My lesson? To let go, move on, and be open to fresh beginnings and the new lessons still to be learned.
For me, these shorter days of winter are a good time to think about things like this, and the slower paced season lets me practice being still, turning inward, waiting for the light that is just around the corner to illuminate the next step along the way…whether together or alone.
So while I’m pondering these thoughts, I’m in my kitchen making a big pot of savory stew, thinking of the many blessings in my life—my family, my friends, my home, my work…as I use my hands in a walking meditation.
The world turns so fast. Take some time to breathe my friends, and be grateful always.
This piece = one on the reasons I adore you so as I remember walking with you and Gretapie on a cool grey morning.
I remember that morning well. 🙂
Just want you to know how much I enjoy your posts! At 78, I will never be able to attend one of your workshops (sounds like so much fun!), but will continue to enjoy hearing your life stories & tips!
Arlene- Thank you so much for checking in. I wish you could join me for a workshop…I have had pie makers in their 80’s join me!
Thank you for this. I could feel the tears welling up in my throat almost immediately as I read what you’ve shared here. You’ve described my own wrestling as I’ve been walking a very similar journey. I haven’t quite understood it until recently and have grieved the reality of needing to let go…not loving less, just allowing myself to recognize how thoroughly I’ve misunderstood that this is ‘life’ lived out in ‘the real’…not what I’ve imagined it to be. Thank you for sharing your heart..I needed this tonight. I appreciate you so.
Blessings in abundance to you and those you love this Christmas.
Kath
Sonoma County, California
Kath- You are so very welcome. Your words, “not loving less” really struck me. I will try to continue to fully love, as I believe it is the most important path there is. I send many blessings and love to you on your journey, too.