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Time for Fun

09/02/2018 By Kate McDermott-Art of the Pie 12 Comments

Time for Fun

Finding time for fun. It’s easy, right? Well, not always, and some of us are so busy that we think we don’t have time for fun at all. This morning on one of my baking drop offs, (this one was a bread-by instead of my usual pie-by), a neighbor and I struck up a conversation about Fun. She shared with me that during a time of depression, instead of writing a prescription, her doc suggested that each day she engage in doing something fun. The doc said to view this as the prescription. And, you know what? She said that engaging in this practice has helped her emotionally, physically, and spiritually. 

I’ve certainly had my times when getting out of bed was the last thing I wanted to do because I didn’t feel that I could face another day. Marriage, kids, work, money, health have presented challenges at one time or another, many times in concert together, and probably yours, too. When I don’t face my challenges, my fear of them increases. So, I started identifying them as blessings…greater and lesser. 

  • Greater blessings–meaningful work, my wonderful son, friends, my sweet dog and cat, and lovely place to live…are just a few.
  • Lesser blessings–the hard and challenging stuff.

I don’t put hard work in the lesser blessing area. I love all of my work, but there are times when I can work to the exclusion of everything and everyone else. 

  • Can you come over for dinner? Sorry, too busy. 
  • Want to go for a walk? I have so many plates in the air. Rain check? 
  • How about a movie? I couldn’t possibly break away right now. 
  • Shall we meet for a cup of coffee? Maybe next week…the operative word being maybe.

All work and no play makes for a dull, stressful, and potentially unhappy life…maybe even a fearful one. It may seem easiest to stay home in my little queendom, writing, baking, cooking, gardening, putzing, but I truly don’t think any of us really want to become a prisoner of our own making no matter how nice a world we have created. 

So, during these last few weeks, I have made it a point to accept nearly every invitation I have received, as well as issuing invitations, and following up on them. Here are a few things I have done: 

  • inviting friends over for dinner
  • attending dinners at the homes of others
  • hunting for treasures at yard and estate sales 
  • more walks with my dog and walks with friends
  • a big potluck at my home that family and about 45 friends and neighbors enjoyed
  • attending a chamber music series where I saw folks I haven’t seen for years and heard and was inspired by world class performers
  • a movie night where I laughed myself silly watching Calendar Girls with my home girls (women some of whom I have known for over thirty years)

My work is still there when I return, and I find that I’m in a refreshed and happy state of mind when I start back in to tackle it. Is usually ends up getting done faster after the happy treats I have been giving myself, and in turn, gives me more time to find more time for fun. All in all, I feel happier, more peaceful, and more rested, too.  

This is my happy face and I’m having fun!

My friend, Dianne Jacob, recently posted on Facebook about a free online course called “The Science of Happiness” that is being offered through the University of California/Berkeley. She said, “I can’t say enough about how great it is. I learned so much, and it really did boost my mood.” So I registered and am looking forward to the start date this Tuesday September 4th. If you are interested, here’s the link to register. 

My new book, HOME COOKING WITH KATE McDERMOTT will be released on October 16th, and YES, it would make me very happy if you might place a pre-order, too.

 

Filed Under: Thoughts Tagged With: blessings, fun, happy, PIe-By

12 Thoughts on Time for Fun
    Vickie Harvey
    2 Sep 2018
     2:34pm

    Thank you Kate. I especially needed this right now. As you, I have been accepting every invitation but it is too easy not to initiate the “fun” myself. That is a great idea! I almost took “The Science of Happiness” course on edX a while ago. I think I need it now more than ever!

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      Kate McDermott-Art of the Pie
      2 Sep 2018
       2:39pm

      You are more than welcome Vickie! I’m looking forward to the course and excited that we might bump into each other there. 🙂

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    omma
    2 Sep 2018
     11:17pm

    Fine philosophy, excellent video as illustration – haven’t seen that Bobby McFerrin one in a long time. Thanks for a timely reminder about the relative importance of things.

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      Kate McDermott-Art of the Pie
      3 Sep 2018
       8:31am

      🙂 My pleasure!

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    Melissa
    3 Sep 2018
     10:26am

    Thank you Kate! This post was so much needed – and I’m going to register for that course. Love the pic of you having fun – your smile is contagious.

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      Kate McDermott-Art of the Pie
      3 Sep 2018
       10:27am

      I’m really looking forward to it…and we must get together again soon!

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    Jennifer Krouse
    3 Sep 2018
     3:30pm

    Hi Miss Kate! I’m so excited to see you’ll be coming to DC in Oct! I’m about 2 hours away from there, but you can be sure I’ll be there! I’ll get my copy of your new book when I get there, of course, but is it ok if I bring my copy of Art of the Pie book with me that day too, for you to sign? Can’t wait!!

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      Kate McDermott-Art of the Pie
      3 Sep 2018
       3:59pm

      OMGosh! I am so honored that you would travel two hours so come. Of course you can bring Art of the Pie! See you on Oct 20 at Politics & Prose in DC!

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    Gina Lagaly
    3 Sep 2018
     6:47pm

    Once again, you have perfect timing. I begin Laughter Yoga tomorrow….for fun and healing.

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      Kate McDermott-Art of the Pie
      3 Sep 2018
       6:52pm

      I love when that happens, and how it happens, well I have no idea. Have a wonderful uplifting time, Gina!

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    Dianne Jacob
    5 Sep 2018
     12:26pm

    I’m so glad you signed up! You are already on your way. Gratitude makes the heart sing. You will learn more about the effects on the body, let alone your mind.

    Looking forward to learning how you like it.

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      Kate McDermott-Art of the Pie
      6 Sep 2018
       12:07pm

      I’m really enjoying Week One Dianne!

      Reply

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